Diocese of Chicago church welcomes children to take part in the liturgy

[Diocese of Chicago] As the congregation sang “God has filled us with laughter and music” on a recent Sunday, two joyful 5‑year‑olds broke into a spontaneous liturgical dance — much to the delight of all who witnessed it. Moments like these reflect a simple truth at St. Lawrence Episcopal Church: Children are not just present in worship; they are integral to it.

St. Lawrence, located north of Chicago in Libertyville, Illinois, has intentionally created space for children to participate fully in the liturgy. Special two‑ and three‑foot candlesticks — perfectly sized for small hands — allow children as young as three to serve as acolytes. These were the inspired idea of their lead acolyte, who crafted them with Velcro tops to ensure the “flameless candles” stay securely in place. On some Sundays, as many as nine children process faithfully behind the cross.

The Gospel procession is also a shared celebration. As Deacon Jackie Lynn carries the Gospel book into the heart of the congregation, she is accompanied by a joyful parade of sound — bells, tambourines and maracas — adding exuberance and energy to the proclamation of the Word.

And then there is baptism, the highlight for many children. They are invited to help pour the water and gather close, enjoying a front‑row view as new members are welcomed into the Body of Christ.

Throughout the service, children are free to sit near the altar, where they read, color, dance or play quietly, remaining fully engaged in worship in ways that meet them where they are.

This child‑centered focus is warmly encouraged by St. Lawrence’s rector, the Rev. Kristin Saylor, whose 5-year-old daughter, Fiona, is often a leader among the children, and the Rev. Stefi Baiju, the associate rector who leads Sunday School, youth ministry and family programs.

“St. Lawrence is proud to model the many ways young people are welcomed and valued as living members of our church,” Lynn said.